In preparing for last Sunday's Youth meeting, I ran across some questions I had been jotting down and decided to spend at least part of our time with the answers. As we have a small group and several were still in vacation mode, there were 6 of us present...including me. The group decided instead of each of them taking a couple questions to answer individually, we'd all answer every one of them, out loud. It was quite eye opening!
It was a joy to find that many of them were content with the way they look (ok, I said I'd like to be taller and thinner...of course they pointed out that if I were taller, I would be thinner). None of them had any major changes. Now while I love them, none are perfect so it was a thrill to find out that they had not bought in to "Madison Ave's" view of how they should look!
I saved what I thought was the big one for last..."If you could be a millionaire (where money was no object!) but only live to 50 years old or just be reasonably comfortable (pay your bills, have a decent car, take a vacation once in a while) and live to 80 which would you do?" ALL of them said they'd live to 80...now if I had listened to TV, magazine and news articles I would have known that this generation is terribly materialistic and that the majority would pick millionaire. I'm so glad I didn't listen...they are more interested in living life than spending lots of money. I'm blessed to have a great group of kids and while I'd like to take most of the credit, it belongs where it belongs...with God and their parents. Thanks for sharing them with me!
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